In order to heal you have to stop saying it doesn’t hurt.
Worry about your character, not your reputation. Your character is who you are. Your reputation is what people think you are.
Time does not heal wounds. It just freezes them. You have to actively repair the wound.
The universe does this thing, where it aligns you with people, things and situations that match the energy you put out. The more you improve yourself and raise your vibration, the more you will see things that are beneficial to your well-being.
Work on things people can’t take away from you. Things like your character, your personality, transparency your entire being.